Ohio Shooting

http://gma.yahoo.com/ohio-school-shooting-victims-parents-forgive-suspected-shooter-161435847--abc-news.html
In the article attached, there was a shooting at a high school in Ohio where three students were killed by another student at the school. The mother of one of the deceased teenagers killed gave her opinion about the whole thing. She stated that she would forgive the killer or "the suspect"of the shooting rampage because no one knows what was going on with him that pushed him to that point. She also said that what happened to her son is done and it was God's plan so she can't go against or do anything about it. Personally, I understand her because you can't bring anyone from the dead and if it's their time to die, you can keep them alive. However, it was sad knowing that his death hasn't hit her yet so she can't exactly respond with her true emotions. If something like that happened to one of my family members i honestly can't tell you what I would do because it may either feel surreal or too hard to deal with. So tell me bloggers how would you respond to a situation like this?